Self-love Before Anything
"You owe yourself the love that you so freely give to other people"
We always focus to love everyone else and find someone that loves us, but forget one important thing: self-love —loving ourself. In my eyes, loving ourself is such a huge steps to do, it sounds simple but hard to do.
I know it sounds cliche but self-love should come first, before anyone, before anything. Self-love meaning no more comparing ourself to others; "how can she be so pretty?", "why can she be so lucky?", "i wish i was her". Stop, just stop comparing ourself to others because that will make us tend to less appreciate ourself.
Self-love meaning we're grateful for whoever we are. No more doubting ourself. We have to live our own dream, stand in our own values, believe in our own skills.
By loving ourself, we must be comfortable with our own skin, our own life, our own choice. You don't have to change for anyone else but you, you change just for yourself, change to be better version of you just for yourself.
Loving ourself mean we must accept our flaws and try to fix it— if it can be fixed. But if not? We can accept it and be thankful for it, because everyone has their own flaws and that make them unique.
"Don't forget to fall in love with yourself first" - Carrie Bradshaw.
"Don't forget to fall in love with yourself first" - Carrie Bradshaw.
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